Think Time
For a variety of reasons, including an airline fiasco that left me without luggage for four days, I decided to drive from Chicago to Denver for Fire-Rescue International. I needed some think time, and driving a five-speed doesn’t let you do much else.
The drive took around 16 hours, with an overnight in Council Bluffs, Iowa, but it was amazing. Many times, I wondered where would rescue workers come from if there was an accident on those stretches of I-80. This is the land of small volunteer fire departments, and none were visible from the interstate. Instead of 4- to 6-minute response times, it could 15 or 20 minutes before help arrived. A Chicago suburb‘s EMS was proud that it’s response to a heart-attack victim spanned 42 minutes from on-scene arrival to rolling the patient into the operating room for surgery. A heart attack could be fatal traveling across the vast cornfields of Nebraska.
But I did more than just reflect on response time; I thought about lack of time, good uses of time and more.
During breakfast on the last morning of FRI, I told a few of my buddies that I felt my “B.S. detector” was broken — I had been wowed by a few individuals, impressed with their vision, intelligence and achievements. I felt inspired by these very likeable personalities, but after working with them on various projects, I learned they weren‘t dependable. Were these revered individuals just all talk?
One chief offered that perhaps over-commitment was the real problem. The fire and emergency services are about people helping people and responding to needs. Too often, we take on more than we can possibly handle and end up spreading ourselves too thin. We become frustrated with being bogged down and, as a result, we disappoint others.
It‘s tough to say no when there are so many genuinely good causes to act on and support. I always come back from trade shows and conferences with stacks of business cards and notes for follow up. I find meeting new people and hearing new causes stimulating, and following-through is a commitment I make to them and to myself.
But as I thought about the committees, boards and new projects I am involved in, I wondered if I, too, had let people down by spreading my time too thin? Most likely, I had. An adage goes, “If you want something done, ask the busiest person you know.” This certainly is true, but saying “yes” too often can dilute other efforts or the value your word.
The long drive home was great think-time. The rain slowed me down on Sunday, and that‘s when I remembered, “Slow me down Lord, ease the pounding of my heart,” and that was a good thing.








